How do you feel about your Body?
To tell you honestly it took me years to learn how to Truly LOVE and ACCEPT my Body the way it is.
Yes, I’m almost 40 now and I finally start loving and embracing this body to the fullest.
When I was a teenager, I could always feel and see millions of flaws. I was skinny in my teens and now when I look back, I would say what the hell was wrong with me?
Why were I picking and looking for something imperfect, WHY?
Youth is already perfect and glamorous and just beautiful and young.
Why do we set standards of being FLAWLESS. Without blemish, stretch marks and dolly kind of a look. For so many of us, perfection is the ultimate dream for our states of being. But, in reality, perfect is never perfect and striving for perfection can turn from admirable to harmful.
I’ve seen lots of naked bodies in my salon for 17 years of my experience. Some beautiful women were complaining about their bodies. They think that they are ugly and not good enough, when I looked at the them, I would say “Geez you are gorgeous!”
check your glasses , girl 🥴
In my younger days, People made fun of me for being skinny and underweight, I was slower than other kids and I was weird( not skinny anymore but my weirdness is still with me 🤣😩😲😁) . My mums’ friends thought I was wiser beyond my years by giving them profound advises about their lives, boyfriends and what they should be doing in life and how and why( still doing it now as paid and unpaid job 😁🤣)
They used to say that “you may be tiny, but you’ve got the talent”.
What about larger curvy women? They have something they are good at, they don’t have to be smaller to be better! Because your talents and personality are what makes you beautiful. I have a Great Girl Friend and she has a curvy big body. I could never imagine her being skinny because her incredible soul and “bigger then life personality” perfectly matches her incredible curvy big body. She’s Slaying it! If she ever decide to loose weight with my help or without .. I only will help if it’s health reason .. otherwise I will make gluten free pancakes for her every day🤣🤣😁
The Media basically control people’s minds, especially teenagers. They make everyone think that we have to be skinny and full of plastic to be beautiful, handsome, etc.
Media can affect kids’ body images greatly. The pictures in magazines of super skinner beautiful models in popular young female magazines can affect them greatly and may cause to have a high chance for developing an eating disorder. Yesterday, my daughter was telling me that she watched Living Barbie on her IPAD who is very skinny and thin with 90 plastic surgeries in her past, and have very tiny waist she was asking, “Mommy why don’t you have such tiny waist?” and I gently replied, “I like the way I am. I like my waist”. So, let’s talk to our kids and also show them we mothers love our bodies the way it is, lets promote healthy lifestyle. Not just for ourselves but also to be the best examples for our daughters and sons.
It is fabulous to have a clean, handsome or beautiful appearance. Some people know how to attain that in a correct and healthy way. That is done through loving yourself for who we are, for our own body type, personality, hair color, eye color, skinny or not skinny waist etc. It should be coming from within, the things that make you YOU.
Let start and be open to love our BODIES, because it’s like a precious suit that we can’t remove and we’re stuck for the rest of our life. Let’s nourish, nurture our bodies and putting importance to it. Our Body is one incredible life form, just like a car for example, if you fill good high-quality petrol then you’ll know that it’s going to pay off because it’s kind of working in a good fill.
Let’s eat more vegetables and proteins😊❤️
Let’s come together and celebrate ALL body types, it may be skinny – curvy and everything in between. Indeed, our body is a beautiful creation that one must learn to love, appreciate and accept our forms. Our bodies are magical let’s start loving them for real. Our body embodies who we are, BE PROUD. Share your Body Here and post! Be brave, Be Bold and Be the Voice